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Many couples arrive in therapy saying some version of: “We love each other, but we keep having the same argument over and over.” Different details, same emotional exhaustion. Often, these arguments can be boiled down to one partner wanting more clarity, reassurance, or structure, and the other feeling trapped, controlled, or overwhelmed by that same request. The towel problem (and why it’s never about the towel) There’s a familiar cliché in relationships. One partner is simme